There is a thin line between being confident and being over confident. I draw the line at being a domineering b*tch.
What is it with people who put on a fake accent and face full of make-up and they think they are better than the rest of us?! I can’t bear people who think they are a level above me just by slapping on war paint on their faces.
I call that insecurity and not “confidence”.
You don’t need make-up to be confident, you don’t need to be stick thin to look beautiful, you don’t need a wallet full of cash for self worth and certainly you don’t need to be an overbearing b*tch with imaginary stories about the high-end, jet-setting life to make you a class above anybody.
And you don’t need to be telling people what to do and how to do it and definitely not to follow your foot step for a successful and “confident” self image when all you have is insecurities.
You would think that maturity comes with age and with age comes the appreciation of your true self image and self worth. But no, i guess it doesn’t comes with age. Not for everybody anyways.
Putting on make-up boost our confidence but that’s all it does, just a small boost to make us feel like the gorgeous lady that we already are. But using make-up as a mask for insecurities is just pathetic. It’s a joke when you can’t walk out of the house without a cake of make-up on your face and it certainly makes me laugh when make-up makes someone drastically switch personalities. It’s like a on/off button.
So, don’t go preaching to people how to gain confidence when you have none.
Do not go telling people they are fat when all you do in your life is obsessed on being stick thin and not even enjoying the food you put in your mouth. Do not be a b*tch when all you have in your dictionary is the word insecurities.
Start preaching when you can actually feel beautiful without being artificial, when you are actually content with your life and when you feel there is not a need to explain you self confidence. That’s when i believe you.
Bugger off.
