It’s been ages since i’ve heard from him. The conversation wasn’t anything deep and profound. In fact, it was just a “hey-long-time-no-see” and “how-are-you” type of conversation. However, it did pull a string or two and almost made me cry. I’m glad…
What defines friendship?
For me, friends will be
* People who could hear you out in times of despair.
* People who understands when you need some time out *uhm… for me it’ll be a hell lot of time…
* People who you are not ashamed of sharing your thoughts and emotions with.
* People who don’t scream at you for being late because you have to attend to some other urgent stuff first.
* People who knows what you would want for your birthday or knows what you would hate
* People who would not blame you for your thoughts and actions.
* People who believe you.
* People who know you like Heineken not Carlsberg.
* People that you will drunk-dial to when you’re wasted alone at home.
* People that understands that you need time to open up.
But ironically, those are the main reasons why i have so few close friends… well next to zero that is.
Am i expecting too much?I’ve always thought that friendship means understanding. I get the idea that somehow it is a give take partnership much like a love relationship between a boy and a girl. Being friends means finding out what their taste is, their thinking and emotions… and in return they find out about yours. From there the bond grows stronger. Not everything must be spoken in words. But i find myself constantly repeating myself sometimes… hmm… maybe too much.
What does friendship means to you?




I swear I could hear bells on this one…
Friendship… to me as long as not my enemy.
the picture suits alot for the title.
got “Feel” in it ~
good job xD
you’re not asking too much. friends are supposed to be that way. somehow they just understand and know what we like and dislike. they know when to come and go. they know what we think about certain issues. people come and go. in the end. only close friends will always be there for us when we need them. no matter how far apart we are.
Friendship??? Anyone wan can do also! So long as they don’t poke my backside! He! He! Actually there are many type of ‘friend’! They type which u can really depend on & trust are very rare!
BTW is that ur leg pic???
Have a nice day!
neo_j>> i oni hear my alarm where got bells :P
kenny>> true true haha
adrian>> the photo? well we are best friends so you could say there is a ‘feel’ haha
zthon>> nicely said. thanks!
horny angmoh>> waaa… got ‘friends’ wan to poke your backside ar?!!! and yeah it’s my leg :P
U got at least 1 close friend?
WoW! Way much better than me…
Oh well… some ppl are just fortunate..
friendship? iz it too complication? 4me, friendship = wonderful & meaningful life with all kind of feeling!
3.8>> aiyo sound so kelian like that. i no better than u lar wakaka come join my club keke
amei79>> ur one of the lucky ones who had found nice friends then haha or maybe coz ur a very cheerful and friendly person urself :P
hmm~~~that was just a general view of friendship, my own defination of friendship would be “让我们有互相利用的对象与机会”!
amei79>> what does that mean> it’s chinese? don’t understand :P
Errr…i dont know how to use the english words, that y I wrote in mandarin…haha. in malay “saling mempergunakan”!
ohhh… i understand LOL in a way friendship is like that hor. haha what’s the use of friends if not to be mempergunakan haha