Behind every successful man is an equally patient and supporting woman. I’m not relatively close to being an expert on this but i totally get it.
 

Pretend to be a hard thinker
 

It doesn’t mean that you have to wait on our man or hold on to every single word he says. It doesn’t mean he could party all night or work 24 hours a day without time for you. Or does it means that you could demand his all his attention and time. It simply means, understanding his and your own needs and tolerance from both parties.

Relationships are of utter complexity. There is no way you can take, take and take without giving up some. Just think of it as a partnership. It’s effort from both partners that makes a team which lead to a successful business… in this case relationship.

It’s not a bad thing that he has his own bunch of crappy friends which he hangs out with once in a while. It comes with the package. What is a guy without his pigdog friends? After all, it’s where he get his humour and character from, that you fell for initially. I don’t mind if he went partying without me sometimes coz he have his own life and i have mine… well actually i don’t have a life… but it doesn’t mean he should join me and stay home. *My gosh! He’ll be bored, i’ll be bored, his friends will be furious!

Ok, he gets addicted to computer games or watever and ignores you. He goes to bookshops and give more attention to the fringgin books then on gorgeous you. Who cares! After that you can drag him go shopping with his money, watch your fav chick movies, eat at some posh restaurant etcetcetc. Remember give and take give and take! You can’t always have your own way. You can’t always do only the things you like. *I’d feel guilty… won’t you??

He likes action thrillers, you like romantic movies. He likes chicken floss donut, you think it’s gross. He likes that hideous looking carpet, you like the brown rug. Isn’t that great? Diversity is what makes the relationship exciting. *If he conforms to whatever you like, what is he but a puppet or a spineless piece of nothing? Let him have his chicken floss donut and you get you brown rug.

Him and his long hours at work. It’s his career for god sake. Let him work when he got to. No sane person would want to slave on his job 24 hours each day unless if he got to. Tell me where to get a job where you could leave 5pm sharp everyday. I’ll start work immediately. I mean i do hate it when he work long hours or sometimes on weekends but hey it’s not like it’s his choice. *As long as it’s not everyday not every weekend, is ok right? In the end who’s gonna benefit from his career? Both him and you.

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It never fails to amaze me how some people could be so stuck in his/her own world. How many jobs and friends could he/she lose for you? Think about that.